The Autism Retort Blog 自闭症反驳的博客

I was just wondering who out there works?我只是想知道谁的作品有？ Right now I am cuurently at home, but need some extra money for bills?现在我cuurently在家里，但需要一些额外的资金法案？ What kind of situation do you guys have?什么样的情况你们这样做吗？ Does anyone work from home or trade off when hubby/wife gets home?有谁在家工作或权衡时，丈夫/妻子一回到家？ If you have any ideas for please let me know.如果您有任何想法，请让我知道。 Thanks, Joy谢谢，快乐

Somebody say somethin'有人说， somethin '

Okay during this last weekend when daddy was home, I was changing Marcel.在这个好上周末时，爸爸在家，我正在改变马塞尔。 He's in pull ups他在拉起伏

(naturally) so anyway if it's just a pee pee change I just have him stand in front of me with his （自然） ，所以无论如何，如果它只是撒尿撒尿改变我只是他站在我前面的他

hind in towards me and change him that way...后在对我和改变他的方式... WELL our big beautiful boxer Elsie came over以及我们美丽的拳击手大杜叶锡过来

and licked Marcel right on the butt.马塞尔和权利舔的对接。 It was hilarious.这是搞笑。 She wanted to make sure her lil guy was她想，以确保她的小小家伙

clean lol.干净的上海。 SOOOOO what's funny in your house? SOOOOO什么有趣的在你的房子？

Leisure skills are important.  Mucho Importante!  or I guess it should be "muy importante".  Hey, don't distract me!  I've been thinking about leisure skills for our kids with autism since my last blog...and it's bugging me!  You may or may not know that, besides having a son with autism, I am a speech language pathologist in a public school, and I work with children who are on the autism spectrum.  I also have many friends who have kids with autism, as well as having a nephew who has autism.  There must be something in the water here in NJ!  (haha, not actually so funny because there IS a lot of crap in the water AND in the soil AND in the air).  Well, in our schools, social skills groups are usually in everyone's IEPs because that's how social skills are adressed, right?  Well, I had forgotten the fight I put up when my son was younger and had recess...I couldn't figure out why social skills were not addressed every moment of the day.  And I kept asking why couldn't the aide who was with him at lunch and recess facilitate some kind of appropriate play interaction with the other kids? I never got an answer, except that maybe I was asking too much. read more »康乐技能是很重要的。 Mucho Importante ！或我猜这应该是“穆伊importante 。 ”嗨，不分散我！我一直在思考技能康乐为我们的孩子与孤独症自从我上次博客... ，它的窃听我！您可能会或可能不知道，除了有一个自闭症的儿子，我的讲话语言病理学家在一所公立学校，我的工作与儿童是谁的自闭症谱。我也有很多朋友的孩子谁有自闭症以及有一个侄子谁了孤独症。必须有东西在水里在南京！ （哈哈，实际上并不如此有趣，因为有很多垃圾在水和土壤中和空中的） 。井在我们的学校， 社会技能的群体通常是每个人的IEPs ，因为这是怎样的社会技能adressed ，对不对？嗯，我已经忘记了我把斗争当我的儿子是年轻，休会...我无法找出为什么社会技能并没有给每一刻的一天。而且我总是问为什么不能助手是谁与他共进午餐，并在休会促进某种适当的发挥互动与其他孩子？我从来没有得到答案，但也许我要求的太多了。 阅读更多»

I thought that maybe we should all put our heads together and try to give Cindy some ideas on how to fade out Marcel's throwing of toys.  After all, we don't want her Christmas to be ruined with a hospital visit.我想，也许我们大家都应该把我们的元首一起，并试图让辛迪一些想法就如何淡出马塞尔的投掷玩具。毕竟，我们不想让她的圣诞节被毁掉了医院的访问。

1)  This is something I pulled from an article in the Autism and Aspergers Consulting, LLC newsletter online by Michael A. Montes entitled "Play with Purpose."  This group seems to advocate the Floor-Time philosophy: 1 ）这是我退出的一篇文章中的自闭症和Aspergers咨询，通讯网络有限责任公司由迈克尔A蒙特斯题为“发挥的目的。 ”这组似乎主张楼时间哲学：

" Excess behaviors such as throwing toys are sometimes associated with autism. Throwing toys is usually perceived as an inappropriate behavior; however, children with autism may enjoy the activity for several reasons. Throwing toys may result in receiving attention or the child may enjoy the sensations provided by the activity such as, watching an object fly through the air and/or the sound of an object making contact with another. The child perceives pleasant visual and/or auditory input and these excess behaviors are considered self-stimulatory. “ 过度的行为，如投掷玩具，有时与孤独症。投掷玩具通常是被视为不适当的行为;然而，自闭症儿童可以享受的活动有以下几个原因。投掷玩具可能会导致受到重视或子女可享受的感觉所提供的活动，如，看一个物体飞行通过空气和/或声音的物体接触与另一。子女认为愉快的视觉和/或听觉的投入，这些多余的行为被认为是自我刺激。

When such behaviors occur, one should ask what can replace this behavior or how can it be made functional.当这种行为的发生，应请问可以取代这种行为或怎么能取得功能。

Assess the child’s strengths and use this information to make the activity functional.评估孩子的长处和使用这一信息，使活动的功能。 In the case of throwing toys, an alternative behavior such as shooting a basketball or ball play could be taught.在投掷玩具，一种替代行为，如投篮球比赛或球可教。 Through means of positive reinforcement the child may begin to pair shooting baskets as a pleasant activity.通过积极手段加强对儿童可能开始对射击比赛作为一个愉快的活动。

Over time reinforcement or rewards may be faded and shooting baskets will become a desirable activity for the child.随着时间的推移，加固或奖励可能会消失，射击比赛将成为一个理想的活动为儿童。 The child can now receive attention for a more appropriate play activity rather than a negative activity." read more »孩子现在可以得到重视了发挥更合适的活动，而不是消极的活动。 “ 阅读更多»

I'm just curious what kind of bedtime routine you and your children have?我只是好奇什么样的睡前例行你和你的孩子吗？ Sometimes it can be tough to get any kid into bed and sleeping.有时它可以很难得到任何孩子到床上睡觉。 What tricks and tips do you have that you can share with other parents?什么花招和技巧，你已经可以同其他父母呢？

Well, we took McKay in today for his autism screening with the psychologist.好吧，我们采取了马凯今天在他的自闭症筛查的心理学家。 It went well, and I learned a lot of new things I never noticed with McKay that he does.它顺利，我学到了很多新的东西我从来没有发现与麦凯说，他没有。 The psychologist is not going to "officially" diganose him with autism just yet (she wants him to see a speech therapist, occupational therpaist and a neurologist) She did however say that since he was abused by my ex at such a young age, (3 months) that a lot of what he is doing is related to that and he has some PDD because of it and he tends to show  a lot of related signs to autism, now whether it is fully related to that, we will have to wait and see.心理学家不会“正式” diganose他与孤独症只是尚未（她希望他看到一个演讲治疗师，职业therpaist和神经）不过她说，因为他是我的虐待前在这样一个年轻的年龄， （ 3个月） ，许多他正在做什么是相关的，他有一些书，因为它，他往往表现出很多有关自闭症的迹象，现在无论是完全相关的，我们将不得不等待看看。 But she said he does have the ability to progress and improve in all areas which is a blessing.但她说，他确实有能力进步和提高在各个领域这是一个祝福。 We are going to take him to a early intervention preschool now, and she sees him doing really well in that.我们要带他到幼儿园早期干预现在，她认为他做得很顺利的。 She did give us pointers to help start potty training and teaching him things.她没有给我们三分球，帮助启动便盆培训和教学他的事情。 She observed him playing and different things and was really interested in the way he did things and what he noticed around the room.她指出他的演奏和不同的东西和真正感兴趣的是，他没有什么事情，他注意到各地的房间。 She also said that when we have to do these visits with my ex (I know, it sucks!) that McKay acts the way he does after them (he gets really violent and starts to withdraw a little and isn't as happy) is because he does remember my ex and what he did to him, even though he was so young, he is remembering him and what happened (he has a lot of nightmares after he sees him...I don't blame the little guy) so she is relating a lot of what he does to what my ex did.她还表示，当我们必须做这些访问，我当然（我知道，它吸收！ ）的麦凯行为方式后，他没有他们（他能真正的暴力，并开始撤回一点，是不是高兴）是因为他不记得我当然和他做过什么，他说，尽管他是如此年轻，他是记住他发生了什么（他身上有很多恶梦后，他看到他...我不怪小人物）所以有关她是很多，他没有什么我当然没有。 It brought all those feelings of hate back towards my ex and if I find out more that McKay could of had a better (even semi normal) life if my ex had not done what he did to McKay then I will make it so he is never around McKay anymore.它使所有这些感情的仇恨回到我当然，如果我找到更多可说的麦凯了更好的（甚至半正常）如果我的生活当然没有这样做他做过什么，对麦凯然后我将这样做，他从来没有围绕麦凯了。 I wish the courts were more willing to make it that way and stop giving criminals second chances!我想，法院更愿意让这种方式并停止向罪犯第二次机会！ Especially when McKay has special needs now.尤其是当麦凯具有特殊现在需要的。 Hopefully we can start working towards helping McKay more! read more »希望我们能够开始工作，帮助更多的麦凯！ 阅读更多»

Recently, I went looking for an actual definition of a positive or negative person, and really couldn’t find one in a nutshell, so I think these are somewhat amibiguous terms that we all understand a little differently and use in different contexts that are sometimes not complete evident.最近，我去寻找一个实际定义一个积极或消极的人，真的找不到一个缩影，所以我想这是有点amibiguous而言，我们都理解有点不同，使用不同的背景有时未完成显而易见的。   So, I decided to do a little more research on how the terms are commonly used with respect to autistic behaviors.所以，我决定做多一点研究如何条款常用对自闭症的行为。   I found the following comment on a psychology webpage (a2zpsychlogy.com) entitled “Autism”.我发现下面的评论心理学网页（ a2zpsychlogy.com ） ，题为“孤独症” 。

“ Autistic children are sometimes described as negativistic, meaning that they intentionally do not comply with the requests of their parents or teachers. “自闭症儿童有时被称为消极，也就是说他们故意不符合要求其父母或教师。 But usually they are not negativistic. 但是，通常他们不是消极。 Often the request is too complicated, or it is expressed in language that is too advanced for them to understand.” 通常的要求过于复杂，或者是表达的语言，也为他们先进的理解。 “

  http://www.a2zpsychology.com/psychology_guide/autism.htm http://www.a2zpsychology.com/psychology_guide/autism.htm

I found a blog written by CS Wyatt, an educator and person with autism, entitled “Life is Good, Even If I Don’t Say So,” that describes how he feels that people see his as being negative because he tends not to mention all of obvious positives he sees around him, but mentions instead the “things that should be changed.” 我发现了一个博客写的政务司司长怀亚特，教育家和人与孤独症，题为“ 生活是良好的，即使我不要这样说， ”这说明如何他认为，人们看到他是消极的，因为他往往更不用提所有的明显的阳性，他认为在他周围，但不是提到的“东西，应该改变。 ”   Please follow this read and read his complete blog post: 请按照本阅读并宣读了完整的博客帖子：

http://theautisticme.blogspot.com/2007/07/life-is-good-even-if-i-dont-say-so.html http://theautisticme.blogspot.com/2007/07/life-is-good-even-if-i-dont-say-so.html

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Today was Michael's Parent Teacher conference with his preschool teacher.今天是迈克尔的家长教师会议，他的学前班教师。 I really like her, she has been a miracle for Michael.我真的很喜欢她，她已经奇迹迈克尔。

Michael is doing well in some areas, and of course still has off days.迈克尔是做好在某些领域，当然还有了天。 But other than that he is doing very well.但以外，他是做得很好。 We talked about Susy a little, and Onalee says she has been the perfect little friend, always helping Michael if he needs it, and being sweet as pie to him.我们谈论Susy一点点，和Onalee说，她是最完美的小朋友，总是帮助迈克尔，如果他需要它，并正在甜蜜的蛋糕给他。

We are going to try a social story for waiting on the  bus.我们正在尝试一种社会故事等待上车。 Today was another hard day on Michael.今天是另一个硬盘每天迈克尔。 Dallas purposely started it this morning.小牛队有意开始今天上午。 He pushed Michael aside in the hall, the stairs, and then tried blocking the downstairs door.他推开迈克尔一边在大厅里，楼梯，然后试图阻止楼下的门。 I think they are becoming more rivals than buddies...我认为他们的竞争对手越来越多的朋友... If Michael would be calmer then Dallas would not want to push as much...如果迈克尔将平静然后达拉斯不希望推动多... I hope the social story helps, because come snow we will be sitting in a small entry-way waiting all together.我希望社会帮助的故事，因为雪来，我们将坐在一个小的入门方式等待所有在一起。 And I just do not have the energy to start off the day with a crying fit  because they feel the need to compete for who is first on the bus.我只是苦于没有足够的能量，开始了一天，哭合适，因为他们觉得有必要竞争，谁首先是在公共汽车上。